New Year – New You!

Everyone says it- they are starting a new year with the new them. Right? I know I have said it! Most of the time, it is our weight or or physical fitness we talk about. Maybe it is being better organized or some other self help action. What if you could build your self esteem, increase your financial stability. and uplift and support other women all by changing your bra?

There is a fun video of me talking about this very thing on my Bra Lady Pam Facebook page. Click here and scroll down to see it.

Two years ago, I joined Essential Bodywear to just help a few ladies find a good bra. It has turned into so much more! It has provided a way for us to travel with trips paid for by the company as well as trips we pay for with my earnings from EBW. It has helped me to make so many great new friends. When we moved across the country for his job this year, I brought mine with me. It opened so many doors to meet so many new people here in the area.

Now, I not only help ladies find a bra, I help them build their self esteem and their financial stability by helping them grow their businesses. Being a team leader has really changed things for me. I love watching ladies grow personally and in their businesses.

Essential Bodywear has an amazing special this week. Call me or message me at 915-309-7109 to let me show you how to get started on a life changing career.

January is also one of our best months to hostess! Help me fill up my calendar!


December Details with Bra Lady Pam!

Happy December to all of you!

So many exciting things are happening with Essential Bodywear!

They announced a special incentive trip November – January. Because I was so busy with family things in November and December, I gave myself permission to do my best and not put too much pressure on myself to do it. Well, then all of my amazing hostesses and customers qualified me for November! Thank you!! Now, I have two more months to qualify to earn the trip. So crazy!

Remember that no bra should celebrate a birthday! I know a lot of you are wearing those Abbies that are getting close to the toddler stage! Let’s get your new ones on order! Look perky for Christmas and even those ugly sweaters will look better!

There is still time to take advantage of the clearance that is happening right now. Of course, there are limited sizes, but hopefully we can find something for you. If you wear a S, M, or L Cami, our buff colored Camis are only $24! Wow!! You can call me to shop or head on over the site to shop here 


The Black and White Camis will be arriving and shipping out on December 21. I know you are all looking forward to having those for Christmas. We feel really strongly that we need to provide the best quality product. We do apologize for the delay, but we do want to make sure they are the best they can be. If you have Navy or Black Nicole panties on back order, you will be getting a refund. If you would rather switch your order to a buff panty, please let me know. Again, we are trying to make sure we can provide the highest quality product.

January is historically the best month for hostesses of Home Parties! We love our hostesses and want to reward you for opening your homes to us. I do not know what our hostess bonuses will be, but I know you will want to get in on it! When I find out, I will evaluate and see what I can add to it to show my appreciation for you to host in January.

Are you one of my Texas hostesses and wonder who will do your parties this year? How about you? I would love to have any of you to join my team! Still not ready for that? Message me and I can connect you with one of the fab bra ladies on my Team!

I think 2017 is going to be a banner year for Essential Bodywear! I know there will be amazing trip that will begin in January! Wouldn’t you like to be in on it? Join me now or in early 2017 to get in on the trip! I want to help you earn it!

I have been very fortunate to have collected a large amount of bras for the Free the Girls organization. The next step is a $250 donation to pay for the the disbursement of the bras to the ladies who need it. If you would like to donate, you can do so here That donation is tax deductible. I will be collecting bras and funds through mid-January.

In October, I posted some of the photos from my trip to PA. I need to update my individual blog with photos that I have been taking since I moved to Virginia. Would you be interested in seeing? Would you want to follow my personal blog, too? If so, send me an email and I will connect you! My email is   We are doing some fun travels over Christmas – you might want to see them!

Thank you all so much for being a part of my EBW family as my friends, hostesses and customers. I must say that meeting so many of you has really made my move so much easier on me!  No matter how you celebrate the Holiday Season, I hope you and your family are truly blessed!


Business Opportunity Meeting on Facebook Live!

Join us to see what all the buzz is about with Essential Bodywear!

Head over to Facebook and like Essential Bodywear’s page. You can join the event. At 11:00 eastern time on Thursday morning, you will get the scoop about Essential Bodywear from Marcia Cubitt, one of the EBW Founders.



Bra Lady Pam’s November News!

Happy Fall, Y’all!!
I am so enjoying the gorgeous fall colors here in Virginia. My husband and I took a trip to PA for my birthday last month. We enjoyed it so much, we went back the next weekend with friends. We enjoyed exploring the area. I am going to share a couple of the fall images I took on our trips.

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So many things are going on for Fall. I have been to special Fall activities at Mount Vernon and even to Costume Parade for horses and their riders!

During the month of November, I did qualify for the diamond level of the EBW Incentive Trip! I could not have done it without the support of my fabulous customers and hostesses. You rock!!!



Essential Bodywear is getting a jump on helping you Give Yourself the Gift of Lift this year! Check out our clearance and get that order in, so you can look perky for Turkey Day!!  Shop here! You can call me or you can shop directly from the site.


I do have a few openings of hostesses during the months of November and December. I would love to help you earn free and half priced merchandise.


I also have openings on my team. I know so many of you would make amazing bra ladies! Set up a time with me to talk about it. I promise not to strong arm you 😉 I would like to tell you how great it feels to uplift and support other women. Join me to chat!

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I almost forgot to mention that I am working with Free the Girls during November. I will be collecting new and gently used bras as well as cash to help defray the costs of shipping them to the ladies who need them. Check out my blog post here about Free the Girls. 






What’s All the Buzz?



Want to know what all the buzz about with Essential Bodywear, Bra Lady Pam and the Free the Girls movement?

Join me at one of the great events on my calendar or schedule a home show with me. I have a few openings in October and November.

At any of these events, you may have a fitting, check out the products and bring your donation for Free the Girls.

Today, October 13  Ladies Night at Style Encore in Manassas 5 pm – 8 pm

Sunday, October 16 Open House with several vendors in Vienna 1pm – 4 pm Message me for details!

Tuesday, October 18 Open House at Bra Lady Pam’s home!  4pm – 7pm Message me for details!

Wednesday, October 19 Fairfax MOPS Fall Vendor Fair 9:30 am – 11:30 am

Thursday, October 20 5:00 pm – 7:00 pm is at Kiskadee in Del Rey!

Friday, October 21 Burke MOMS Group Diaper Shower and Vendor Event  10:00 am – Noon and


Change Your Bra ~ Change Your Life

Change your bra ~ and change your life! One of our company owners is doing a business opportunity Facebook Live Event this morning at 11 EST. I will be doing a drawing for a free pair of panties for my contacts who watch and post that you were invited by me!

I really am happy to be a part of Essential Bodywear. I hope you will participate and then contact me for a time where we can chat about we can get you started on your own uplifting and supportive company.

1. Like Bra Lady Pam
2. Like Essential Bodywear
3. Tune in for the Live Event
4. Post you were invited by Bra Lady Pam
5. Set up a time to have a virtual cup of coffee and chat with me!
6. Start a fabulous new business with me and Essential Bodywear

Have a Perky Day!



October News from Your Bra Lady!

October is my Birthday Month! The older I get, the more thankful I am for those birthdays, but wow, I don’t like counting them anymore! We might be thankful for our birthdays, but our bras should not celebrate a birthday! If your purchased your bras from me prior to November of 2015, it is time to place your reorder! If you purchased since, but only purchased one or two, it is time to order again! Fall is the perfect time – and you can take advantage of the new fall color of Nautical Navy and you can get free shipping through my birthday on the 17th!

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Free The Girls!

You are probably asking yourself, “Why would a Bra Lady be advertising to Free the Girls?”  This is not what you were thinking. Unlike the free the girls movement that encourages a women to go braless, or even topless, this is a really is about freeing girls and and women who have been slaves in sex trafficking. These women are women breaking free. They become bra ladies in their city. They don’t do parties and provide a service like we do, but they are providing for themselves by selling bras. This helps them stay out of the streets.

How can you help? At every event and party that Bra Lady Pam has in October and November, I will be collecting bras and monetary contributions for Free the Girls. If you want to read more about this organization, click Free the Girls 


Here are events where you can donate:
October 7  11:00am-2:00 pm Kiskadee in Del Ray Alexandria, Va

October 13  5:00pm – 8:00pm  Style Encore in Manassas, VA

October 20  4:00pm – 7:00pm Kiskadee in Del Ray Alexandria, Va

Schedule a home show where you and your friends can contribute to Free the Girls!


Learn More About Essential Bodywear!


Join Marcia Cubitt, President of Essential Bodywear, September 29 at 9 EST. Like Essential Bodywear on Facebook. While watching, post you are there because of Bra Lady Pam. At the end of the broadcast, I will draw for a free panty for anyone who is on the call and posted my name! After the broadcast, message me to set up a meeting! We can meet in person or virtually.



Can’t be on the call tonight? Join me on Sunday at La Madeleine in KIngstowne for fittings and the business opportunity presentation!

Apprentice Wanted:
Experience our great products!
See how amazing it is to uplift and support other women!
Sign up for 30 days – no obligation to continue.
Keep your bra and commission.
At the end of the 30 days, you will have the opportunity to evaluate and decide if you want to continue to grow as a bra lady or stay on as a customer! Either way, it is a win for you!

What have you got to lose?